I know even from early on in life, I've been really lucky, protected and secluded from many ugliness of the world. I have a wonderful childhood, my family is not rich, but we are doing ok. As a child, you don't really think of these things. You think everyone else has the same things you... Continue Reading →


New Zealand Part 1: Being Sick in Christchurch (Circa 2014)

So it all began with a 8-hours flight from Singapore to Brisbane, excruciatingly-long transit of 7 hours in Brisbane airport, and followed by another 4 hours to Christchurch. Truth is, this travel arrangement would be annoying, but bearable because I usually could just sleep through anything, including storm and earthquake (a lil' exaggeration never hurts),... Continue Reading →

People Change. Memories Don’t.

(I found this unpublished draft in my blog recently, and so I thought I'd share it. I wrote this quite a while back actually. It's interesting to read what my younger-self was thinking.) So I was on my way back a couple of nights ago after a movie-night with my friend, and I was just... Continue Reading →

Wrong in Just The Right Way.

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But... Continue Reading →

2015: Our Best Year Yet!

Hello everyone! It's been a long time, I apologize. The last few months of last year have been crazy, and I mean crazy! I spent most of my time in Jakarta, and had my birthday, Christmas and New Year in the superbly breathtaking New Zealand!2014 has been an awesome year, but I know that 2015... Continue Reading →

The Tension Between Who You Are

You want to be so many things. I always thought you would settle down one day and be ok with just being who you are. And what kind of monster would I be, to ask you to want to be less? Maybe wanting to be so many things, is just who you are.

Growing away

When I look at you, I can see the person you used to be drowning in the person you are. And it makes me nostalgic and sad because I know when you look at me, you must see the same thing.

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